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FountainBlue's August 13 When She Speaks, Women in Leadership Series was on the topic of Politics in the Workplace: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly, featuring our esteemed panel of speakers:

Facilitators Krista Henley and Rossella Derickson, Corporate Wisdom and SBODN

Panelist Haripriya Devnath, Pricing Manager, NetApp

Panelist Yvette Huygen, Worldwide PR Director, Synopsys

Panelist Kim Elisha Proctor, Senior Manager Holistic Quality, PayPal and BAODN

Panelist Eileen Sullivan, Group Director, Cadence

Please join me in thanking our sponsors at Synopsys for graciously hosting us for this event. Below are notes from the conversation:       

By definition, any group of two or more may have intrigue and maneuvering within a group, the definition of politics itself, so where there are people, whether it's in the boardroom, by the water coolers at work, or at home or at the playground. there will be politics. Whether your political issue is turf protection, hesitation in sharing info, playing favorites, gossip, maliciously compliant, passive-aggressiveness or something else, no one's in a bubble, even if you see yourself as an individual contributor with no direct reports. In fact, the level of politics you deal with is directly proportional to the number of people you're interacting with, whether or not they report to you. Politics happens at all levels within an organization, and the types of politics varies on function, team and organization.

In the best of all worlds, politics is a cooperative, dynamic give and take which is direct, transparent, collaborative, and focused on a win-for-all result. But politics can get UGLY, so there are actions you can take to prepare yourself to manage politics.

It is first important to acknowledge and accept the pervasiveness of politics, and think with positive, yet realistic connotations: not just something an aggressive, self-serving person would do, but something that everyone needs and leverages to get things done, working with people.

Next, seek to understand your personal strengths, objectives and strategies around managing the politics around you. Listen to what others say about your actions and how they perceive you based on your actions, but also listen to yourself and what your body and mind as telling you. Know your strengths and leverage them to the advantage of all, setting up situations for good politics which benefit all. Men and women who successfully navigate the politics around them understand both themselves, but also the people that they interact with as well as the norms and rules of a group overall, whether its official or unofficial, documented or not. It's a matter of understanding both what your needs are, but also the needs of others in the group, and understanding the actions and power plays people take on to get what they need.

Once you accept the pervasiveness of politics, your own personal strengths and needs and that of those youre working with, be strategic and plan out how you manage the politics to drive results making proactive, measured choices, and encouraging the same for others. Make it always a conscious choice about whether you participate in the political maneuvering around you. Ask yourself if you should engage, and if so, why and how and what are the desired results and costs. The key is to think it through strategically, and being clear, transparent communications up front, and continually checking in with the other parties regarding objectives, motivations, desires, and anything else which may change as situations evolve.

Again and again, the panelists commented on the importance of building relationships with key others within, throughout and outside your organization. Take the time to understand what motivates and drives them, while communicating your own needs, and working toward common causes in alignment with corporate values and needs. Its about building a large network of trust with people empowered to drive results for individuals, groups and the organization overall.

Clearly, building a large network of trust between like-minded, results-oriented professionals at all levels. The panelists encouraged us to get out of your comfort zone, and start connecting with more people who are different than you in role, perspective orientation, etc., but also people who are similar to you in many ways as well. The more you build your network, the more visibility and power you will have, especially in politically sensitive matters, whether or not you aspire to climb the corporate ladder.

The importance of having a broad and deep network is particularly useful if you work for an organization undergoing change, whether its expansion or contraction, a change in products and services, a change in markets and customers. When companies are retracting, people feel threatened and insular, and its more important to develop deeper relationships. When companies are expanding rapidly, its important to connect with people from different areas and departments, developing relationships and better understanding how people and groups work together as the company grows, while getting visibility and building relationships.

As our facilitators put it, everyone is encouraged to leverage their authentic self and a politics of kindness to drive results which are collaborative and functional vs. results that make people feel undermined and cheated and worse. The other side of politics is collaboration, so focus on what it takes build collaborations benefiting people, teams and the company overall, breaking down silos between people and teams. Practice positive communications, and be strategic about spreading it to build community and team across roles, programs and organizations.

Below is a list of strategies and tactics our panelists leveraged to best navigate politics:

  • Building relationships is important, and its important to always try to work with people you trust and respect, but at times, you have to work with people who havent earned your trust. If and when thats the case, be clear and transparent, and work other relationships to help ensure desired results.
  • Align yourself with a great manager and boss (and program), because no matter how good you are, your future is tied to his or hers.
  • Dont be a pawn in a political maneuvering. Recognize that you always have a choice about whether to engage and how and why and act accordingly.
  • Be comfortable taking measured risks, even in highly charged political situations. But be extra careful if you're new to a relationship, organization or team, for people may not be who they seem, and may have more power than you think.
  • If you're dealing with favoritism, try becoming a favorite of the favorite.
  • If you're a victim of passive-aggressive behavior, dont take it personally and rise above it. You will likely have allies as he/she have likely made other victims. If you're in a corporate culture that discourages this, this behavior will be quickly discouraged. If you're not, create a culture which frowns upon this type of behavior and delivers feedback quickly to the offender.
  • If the project you're working on becomes progressively more interesting to others within the team, including people who outrank you, assume that there will be a greater interest from others and respond accordingly, always focusing on whats right for the overall project and company, rather than taking personal offense.
  • Whenever you're a victim of bad and ugly politics, always think that there are multiple ways to look at things, multiple points of view. You dont have to buy into someone else's viewpoint, but taking the time to understand it will give you a broader perspective, and help you strategize a win-win result, if one can be reached under the circumstances.
  • If you're a victim of long-term political battles and have gotten to the point of wondering when you will walk, have a clear view of what you will do and won't do, and a clear moral boundary a line in the sand that you won't cross. You have to live with your own actions and decisions and sleep at night. If your political circumstances are asking you to cross that personal line, don't do it, and don't waste your time and energy being outraged at others who are pushing you there. Just make your own decision, and take your own action so that you don't have to go there.
  • Have the courage to stand in your own power, embracing who you are, what you do, what youve accomplished and the wisdom to know when to release or not engage. 
  • Take the initiative and be trusting and respectful of those around you, giving them the benefit of the doubt. You will likely earn that right back, but if you don't, don't be naive and follow the proverb 'once bitten, twice shy'.
  • Practice positive communications and own the impact of your communications on others be it positive or negative.
  • Take the proactive stand up for what's right, even if it's a politically charged stand. But also be willing to stand down, disagree and commit, for having multiple factions on a sensitive topic will likely be division and unproductive.
  • Think of politics like a game, something that brings up your competitive juices. Remember its just there, and don't take it personally. In fact, find a way to enjoy it, especially if you're building relationships and collaborations that benefit all.
  • Be positive when speaking of others. Be direct when displeased with others.
  • Taking up golf may actually help you build relationships with decision-makers within your company.
  • Always take an observer stance, noticing who's doing what; what everyone's needs are. Be ever the diplomat, caring about others around you, who they are, what their needs are, how they respond.
  • When working with people from other geographies, try to understand that their reality is different than yours, while also acknowledging that you aren't currently walking in their shoes, experiencing all they do.
  • Don't over-emote over a political situation. It may not be as bad as you think, or it may wind up where you think. If others treat you badly, it's likely not personal as in general how you do one thing is how you do everything.
  • Know your style and educate others about who you are and what youre about so they are less likely to misinterpret your actions.
  • When advocating for your team and their cause, identify and work with the decision-makers to lobby for the cause. Also work with those close to the decision-makers to ensure they understand the project and its impact and benefits to the company and to themselves personally as well as THEIR team. If others not in the decision-making chain are undermining you or unhappy with a positive decision, be respectful and clear that your focus is on the overall company good, which would also benefit them.
    • Twelve Angry Men http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Twelve_Angry_Men
    • Disclosure http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0109635/

In conclusion, the panelists concurred that navigating politics is a journey, not a destination. Regardless of whether youre new to work, or have risen the ranks leveraging politics, there will be lessons to learn throughout your career. Acknowledge that not every decision and action you make and take will lead to the win-for-all results you seek, but always reach for results you can live with, results that align with your core values and your authentic self.  In short, navigate politics by being authentic and genuine in all you do, make decisions with the highest moral standards, with objectives that support all, and work with those you trust and respect and focus on making progress collaboratively for the greater good of yourself, your team and your organization.

Resources:

  • Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking, Malcolm Gladwell, http://www.amazon.com/Blink-Power-Thinking-Without/dp/0316172324
  • Watch movies to see how people interact:
  • How Smart Women Win at Office Politics, by Jo Miller, Women's Leadership Coaching http://womensleadershipcoaching.blogspot.com/2010/08/from-article-archive-how-smart-women.html


FountainBlue's July 9 When She Speaks Women in Leadership Series was on the topic of Women's Leadership Styles: What's Right for YOU? and featured:

Facilitator Kristi Royse, KLR Consulting

Panelist Shalini Govil-Pai, Group Manager, YouTube and TV, Google

Panelist Ruchi Goyal, Product Manager, NetApp

Panelist Robin Kwok, Technical Program Manager, Energy and Display Systems, Applied Materials Inc.

Panelist Allison Leopold Tilley, Partner, Co-Head Corporate Securities & Technology Section, Pillsbury Winthrop Shaw Pittman LLP

Panelist Shobhana Viswanathan, Senior Marketing Manager, Global Alliances, VMware

Below are notes from the conversation:   

The inspiring and competent women on our panel came in all shapes and sizes, industries, roles and perspectives, but they share many things in common: a high level of self-awareness, a commitment to grow for themselves and for the group and organizations they work with, a generous spirit of sharing and empowerment, competence in skills and execution, and exceptional communication and people skills. They each had a level of self-confidence and persistence necessary to succeed in a male dominated profession and organization, and sufficient results to command the respect of their staff and peers, and earn the titles they currently hold.

They all engaged in activities outside their day-to-day work, and did what it took to recharge and re-energize themselves every day. They all continue to respond directly and proactively to the day-to-day challenges they face, working collaboratively to ensure win-win outcomes in alignment with corporate, personal and group objectives.

They are collaborative problem-solvers and experts at engaging and empowering others to participate in the decision-making and execution process. It's not that they don't run into controversial situations. It's that their understanding of people and their fearless communication styles, and their commitment, authenticity and integrity, have spurred them to take action, and directly address problems immediately and transparently.

These women are held in high esteem, and they generously shared their thoughts on how to hone your leadership style:

Be the leader you want to be and know that it will not always be easy.

  • A woman's leadership style is always about balancing between being too soft and too aggressive (a doormat or a bench); too work-focused and too family-oriented. It's a continual push-pull for all our panelists, yet they keep making the choices that will allow them to succeed both personally and professionally, leveraging a network of support. It's not that they don't have the same challenges and issues the rest of us have. It's that they have accepted the need to constantly make tough choices and developed a support structure to help them have their cake and eat it too. Bringing the two sides together, it's the image of a tough mom holding a baby. You have to be competent and tough enough to succeed and nurturing and indulging enough to make sure others learn and benefit from it.
  • It takes a strong and resilient person to choose to walk the uphill battle and succeed in a male-dominated role and industry. You have to be tough, competent, and resilient to succeed at it, and empower others as you succeed.
  • Be yourself, adopt your own leadership style. With that said, learn from the successful styles of others and constantly study what other people are doing and acting, and what's working and not working for them, even if its in a different context than your own work and personal challenges. And focus on your strengths to keep developing and refining your own leadership style.
  • Request the gift of feedback from people who see you from different angles. Reflect on that feedback, and change your style as appropriate based on the input.
  • Leadership is not about toeing the line and being bland. Be willing to stick your neck out and be passionate and take a stand. With that said, do your homework so that you understand why youre taking a stand, and so that you can communicate your position in a confident and compelling way.
  • Be well-rounded. Join other teams and organizations and put yourself out there to discover other dimensions of yourself. You will learn as much as you give.
  • Be self-aware enough to know what makes you tick, what motivates you, and continue to make choices that will keep yourself engaged and passionate.
  • Recognize whats important to you, and make choices that ensure that you have the time and energy to do whats important to you. This will involve saying no to other things, putting limits to some of the things you're agreeing to do.
  • Have a mind-body connection, and make choices to support your body and your mind and deal with the stress and challenges of holding a leadership position.

Build a network and infrastructure that will support you and others around you.

  • Develop a network of support from family to friends to stay-at-home moms to nannies to babysitters, housekeepers and gardeners, to help you meet the day-to-day demands of leadership at work.
  • Engage in and support the development of mentorship programs within your organization, as a mentor or a mentee. Supporting a mentoring culture and infrastructure within your organization is not an easy task as it cant be mandated. But when it works, it benefits all participants and the organization as a whole.
  • Facilitate grass-roots leadership within your organization, and collaboratively encourage networking and learning across departments and organizations. Developing engagement from the bottom up, and enlisting executive management to participate will help build a stronger organization and more empowered leaders.
  • Support the advancement of women within your organization, and help people address their stereotypes about women managers vs male managers. One of the reasons why both men and women wanted male bosses is that they are historically more likely to advance, and bring along their staff as they do. However, as more women advance to higher, more visible positions of influence, this is changing, but the perceptions may remain.

Be the competent leader others will respect.

  • Walk a mile in the shoes of others, and show that youve been part of the team, facing and addressing the problems they've faced, whether its in sales or manufacturing or R&D. This way, you can communicate with the people who are making things happen, and bring these challenges and insights to the executive team and strategize on how best to proceed.
  • You have to be a people person, and a great communicator, showing that you care about people, and also that you get the business imperatives. Learn to bond with people on their terms, and also earn their respect for your business acumen and competence. Engage them in getting things done, problems resolved.
  • Embrace your passionate side, but not in a way which will brand you as too emotional. Channel your emotion to passion for a cause at work or outside. Manage your emotions during conflicts by 1) taking a breath, 2) focusing on the issues, 3) not taking things personally, 4) understanding root causes for the conflict, 5) taking the conflict into a one-on-one discussion, 6) speaking rationally with common sense, 7) having a zero-tolerance policy for belittling remarks, 8) tabling the conversation if necessary, etc.

Every leader will meet resistance. The question is what you do about it.

  • If you are labeled a b** for an action you've taken, consider to yourself if a guy would be considered a jerk for doing something similar, and even bring up the question to others if you think there's a double standard.
  • Learn from your mistakes. Don't hate the other side because they were good, but learn from why they were selected. Consider challenges as growth opportunities. And if you've made a mistake, pick yourself up and keep moving forward, hopefully stronger for it!
  • Have the courage to immediately and directly address individuals who has not treated you with respect.

Communicating to engage and inspire others is a leadership prerequisite.

  • Be other-centric, whether you're communicating with a staff member, peer, manager, family member, or customer, understand their perspectives and abilities and strategize on the best ways to communicate to them. Gather data tailored to what's relevant to them in a way that makes sense to them. For example, if youre working with a resistant, defiant and cranky engineer who can't multi-task and doesn't want to be bothered in the middle of a project, plan your communications with him at the end of the project.

Leverage your gender, learn from your children.

  • Learn from your children, whether it's about the latest social media trends, or the perspectives of the younger generation, or even life priorities, in many ways, being a parent is a great leadership challenge.
  • Women leaders bring so much to the table, with their multi-tasking abilities, their ability to work across cultures and age groups, and, as mentioned in the October 2009 McKinsey report inspiring others and defining expectations and rewards will be critical future leadership needs.

 

In conclusion, leadership is about the choices you make day-to-day. Take the time to reflect on the choices you're making and make sure that they are on the path for success you've outlined for yourself. Have a plan for success, and choose your take-aways and learnings from each and every experience. Make the difficult choices when necessary, including leaving a position, role or organization if it is not fulfilling, if it's not something you're passionate about. Find meaning and purpose in the work that you do, and make sure that it helps you grow in the direction you choose, while you're making a difference in the way you choose.

 

Resources:

  • Cracking The Boys Club Code, The Woman's Guide to Being Heard and Valued in the Workplace, Michael Johnson http://www.amazon.com/Cracking-Boys-Club-Code-Workplace/dp/1600376428
  • McKinsey October 2009 Leadership through the crisis and after: McKinsey Global Survey results  http://www.mckinseyquarterly.com/Organization/Leadership_through_the_crisis_and_after_McKinsey_Global_Survey_results_2457
  • Now Discover Your Strengths, Marcus Buckingham, http://www.amazon.com/Discover-Your-Strengths-Marcus-Buckingham/dp/0743201140
    • Strength Finder Test http://www.strengthsfinder.com/113647/Homepage.aspx

 

Special Offers:

  • When leaders make staff development a priority; their team becomes unified, projects run smoothly and goals are surpassed in return. KLR Consulting invites you to read a story about a woman who changed everything in her organization with comprehensive employee development programs, and welcomes your inquiries and comments. http://www.klrconsulting.com/clients/pdfs/first5_success.pdf


FountainBlue's June 11 When She Speaks event was on the topic of Millennials In Our Midst and featured:

Facilitator Camille Smith, Work In Progress Coaching

Panelist Cyndi Stargiotti, Technical Training Programs Manager, Synaptics

Panelist Jenny Xu Woo, HR Manager, Talent and Executive Assessment, Cisco

Panelist Joan Watkins, IT Manager, LifeScan

Please join me in thanking our speakers above, as well as our hosts at LifeScan, all of whom make our work possible.

Below are notes from the conversation:

Our panel concurred that it is not about the age bracket or the perspectives of each generation of workers, its about getting everyone fully contributing and successfully, fully integrated and open-minded so that they as productive and as collaborative as possible, to keep an organization forward-thinking and effective at a time when innovation is key, problems are complex, international and multi-faceted, and teamwork and collaboration will remain the keystones for success.

 

Each panelist eloquently described how their organizations and their teams leveraged technology to its fullest, but more importantly, listened to the needs of staff and customers, factoring in their needs and perspectives and finding a middle ground, building alignment toward strategic goals. Technology is an important enabler for building communication and community, but it takes open communication and acceptance of differences and building relationships of trust to get everyone to pull together on common goals, despite differences in culture, age and perspectives.

 

The panelists encouraged us to develop a corporate culture which respects differences and supports the needs of workers, including millennials. The panelists commented that millennials prefer corporate cultures that support flexible work hours, results-oriented milestones stating what needs to be done without specifying how it should be done, and constant and specific feedback. They do expect advancement based on performance, but are generally now more realistic about the timeframes for advancement.

 

Millennials were raised in the age of the internet where answers are readily and quickly available, so they are techno-philic, embrace the rapid pace of a corporate culture, and many show amazing capacity for completing work well and quickly, all valuable qualities in todays competitive corporate world.

 

The question arose about how millennials can get more respect in the workplace, and the panelists responded by advising them to stand behind their results and performance (even if it appears that others with less stellar results and more experience receive credit), be positive in communication (even if frustrated by above), build strategic connections like sponsors and mentors within and outside the company, and be strategic about how you communicate what you do, how you do it, and how passionate you are about it.

 

Parents of millennials may not spend as much time with their kids, coming from a driven, work-philic generation, but DO shower them with attention and toys when they do. Therefore this generation has more toys and tools, more confidence and independence than GenX for example. The implication in the workplace is that they want to understand the context of the work they are asked to do and how it fits into the bigger picture for the organization. Once they understand this and buy into it, they generally attack the task or problem with contagious enthusiasm, and deliver quality results efficiently. Note also that Millennials in general have seen the work ethics and choices made by their parents, and are choosing to live for the moment, enjoy and celebrate life, which may impact how they come across at work.

 

The panelists made several suggestions on how to create a cross-generational culture which brings out the best in all:

  • Create opportunities to gather informally and socially and encourage interactions between groups, generations, cultures, etc.
  • Encourage open communications about assumptions, perceptions, expectations. Equally important is to encourage acceptance and tolerance of differences.
  • Model and encourage how a good sense of humor can help develop connections and trust, and relieve stress.
  • Leverage the best out of each persons differences in abilities and perspectives, and teach your teams to do the same.
  • Reward teams that can find a middle ground and work together toward a common goals, a collaborative decision-making process that benefits all.
  • Encourage and insist on focus when its necessary, but be flexible about having divided attention when its not.
  • Insist on respect for all, and be direct if someone is inadvertently being rude, particularly if theyre unconsciously using technology gadgets when they are ignoring or disrespecting someone else present.
  • Establish and support mentoring programs to build connections between generations, roles, cultures.

 

In conclusion, business has become much more complex, with so many political, social issues involved, with many more interdependencies and risks than ever before, with local and global factors impacting decisions, with the proliferation of technology and the need to leverage it effectively to communicate openly and transparently, building credibility and engagement of all stakeholders. It is essential for leaders to engage all stakeholders within and outside a company to collaboratively made effective decisions in a complex world. Full engagement of the tech-savvy, efficient millennial generation in the collaborative decision-making process, with their passion for building community and saving the world will set forward-thinking companies apart from those who embrace the status quo, the old way of doing business.


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FountainBlue's May 14 When She Speaks, Women in Leadership Series event was on the topic of Standing on the Shoulders of Mentors and featured:

Facilitator Kim Wise, Mentor Resources

Panelist Erna Arnesen, Vice President, Worldwide Services Partners and Alliances, Cisco Systems

Panelist Claudia Galvan, Principal Lead Program Manager, Windows Live, Microsoft

Panelist Vidya Venkatesh, Senior Specialist, Global Product Support, Life Technologies

 

Below are notes from the conversation.

Each panelist emphasized the importance of mentorship in their growth and development, both personally and professionally. Mentors have helped our panelists articulate and achieve their goals, build relationships that endured the test of time, see challenges from a different perspective, and keep climbing the corporate ladder. Mentors open up doors to people, to information, to resources and networks. They help you achieve your objectives step by step, and position you with the knowledge, strength, network and confidence to reach still further toward your goal. Whereas formal education provides you with the knowledge and skills to perform your job, mentors provide you with feedback, input, confidence and coaching to succeed at your job, managing people, time, objectives, etc.

 

There are many different types of mentors. There are internal mentors within your company who are familiar with the people and processes there and can help you navigate those waters, very helpful particularly if youre new to a company or an industry. There are external mentors from other companies who can provide more general coaching and support. There are technical mentors who refer you to the right information and resources so you better understand subject matter and have better skills to deliver on your work objectives. There are senior mentors who can draw from their extensive experience to give you ideas and perspective in managing a specific challenge. Former bosses might make a good mentor for you, for example. There are peer-to-peer mentors within or outside a company, who are sharing similar challenges. And there are even reverse mentors, like the program at Cisco which invites Millennials to reverse-mentor execs who want to better understand the perspectives from that generation.

 

Whatever type of mentor you select, you must know first why you want a mentor and what goals you'd like to achieve with the support of a mentor. From there, you can decide who would be a good mentor to achieve those goals. And then you can figure out how to approach this potential mentor so that he/she would be interested in supporting you as a mentor. When you have the initial conversation, do what you can to make the chemistry work for both of you while also focus on what you'd like to accomplish and why you think this person could help you meet those objectives. In addition, set expectations in terms of logistics - how often to meet, where to meet, etc. and also set ground rules on what type of feedback you're looking for, and how best to communicate with you.

 

Remember, your potential mentor is likely very busy, so make it convenient and easy and enjoyable for your mentor to meet with you, and make it easy for them to help you: you should do most of the prep work/agenda planning and keep them posted on how helpful their advice has been for you. Take the initiative to ensure that the relationship is continuing to work for you both.

 

In starting a relationship with a mentor, it might be like riding a bike with square tires at first, but if you work with it, and keep building results and a positive chemistry, you will find it rewarding for both parties. Below is a list of topics which might be covered in mentor-mentee meetings:

  • Career development and transition
  • Performance Reviews
  • Time Management
  • Negotiations
  • Your Passion and Bringing It Out at Work
  • Global Teams
  • Functional Expertise
  • Business Problems
  • Reassurance and Validation
  • Feedback, Advice and Suggestions on Specific Issues

 

In short, a mentor can make THE difference in the success of leaders at all levels. Finding the right mentor is a worthwhile exercise, and BEING a mentor to others is also rewarding, educational and energizing.

 

Resources:

  • Mentoring Tools offered by Mentor Resources http://www.mentorresources.com/mentoring_tools.aspx
  • Go Put Your Strengths to Work: 6 Powerful Steps to Achieve Outstanding Performance by Marcus Buckingham http://www.amazon.com/Put-Your-Strengths-Work-Outstanding/dp/0743261674/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1273883741&sr=8-4

FountainBlue's April 9 When She Speaks, Women in Leadership Series was on the topic of Building and Reinforcing Your Executive Brand and featured:

 

Facilitator Lisa Orrell, CPC, The Promote U Guru

Panelist Erna Arnesen, Vice President, Worldwide Services Partners and Alliances, Cisco Systems

Panelist Christine Crandell, Senior VP of Marketing, Accept Software

Panelist Cissy Leung, Chief of Staff, Applied Solar, part of Applied Materials

Panelist Whitney Tidmarsh, Chief Marketing Officer, Content Management and Archiving Division, EMC Corporation

Panelist Luciana Vecchi, Globalization Business Manager, Core Services, Adobe Systems Incorporated

 

Below are notes from the conversation.

Your brand tells people who you, and what to expect from you whether at work or at home. It helps people decide whether to trust you, and what to trust you about. Effective executives, both women and men, proactively build their brand, to ensure that others think highly of them, and have the confidence that they can execute under specific circumstances, and even in situations where they have little connections and expertise. Indeed, your executive brand can limit or launch your success.

 

Our panel concurred that an executive brand says something about you to people you know and people you want to know. It is a compilation of all the things that you've said and not said, done and not done. Below are some elements of the brands developed by our esteemed panelists:

  • Proactive networking and communication independent of roles and organizations and levels
  • Collaborative, consensus builder focused on results
  • Deep knowledge and expertise
  • Persistent, results-oriented problem solver
  • Forward thinking
  • Passionate
  • Community orientation
  • Authenticity: You get what you get

 

To begin building your brand, start with an understanding of who you are what you are good at and passionate about. Recognize your weaknesses as a part of who you are and develop a plan to compensate for them, to make them a 'win' or a 'feature', provided that the weakness does not interfere with your ability to deliver results. Listen to yourself and make your priorities based on whats important to you. Always make choices that will keep you authentic, make you happy to be who you are.

 

Focus on what you would like to accomplish both personally and professionally and then strategize on how to accomplish your goals, both in terms of the actions you need to take and the networks you need to connect with. Ensure that what you say and what you do, or dont say and don't do, are in congruence with who you want to be, how you want to present yourself now, and in the future, in your personal and in your professional life.

 

Some people like to draw attention to themselves through their hair (think Don King or Donald Trump) or accessories or socks, but even if you choose to do so, it's what you say and what you do that communicates who you are, rather than the less.

 

Continue to refine your executive brand through your communications online, in person, and in writing, and ensure that your thoughts and actions are in alignment with your intended brand. Continue to align your decisions and actions and review and update the brand you'd like to communicate.

 

If someone says or does something which may threaten the integrity of your brand, first figure out who is doing it, why they might be doing it, and whether he/she is important to you. If he/she is important to you, or could influence how important OTHERS can perceive you, work quickly to make an authentic stand for your brand, your reputation, through strategic actions and communications. It is your job to NOT JUST communicate your brand, but also to defend it from being misinterpreted. Know when to stand up to misperceptions, to subtly or more directly prove them wrong by your words and actions, and to ignore them altogether. 

 

Whereas previously only the most important people had handlers and publicists and others to ensure brand integrity for them, in todays world of technology proliferation and constant communications, EVERYONE must build and protect their brand real-time. The wide range of social media offerings from FaceBook to LinkedIn to Twitter offer so many different channels for communicating your brand, but they also demand a proactive defense of the integrity of the brand, and thorough consideration prior to communicating online, where anyone could Google your communications, even ones youd prefer not to be known by. It's hard to compartmentalize your personal and professional life, and it takes judgment and discipline to ensure that sensitive or frivolous or private information does not negatively impact your brand.

 

One example of the consequence of not doing so is that it is now common practice for hiring managers to Google a potential candidate online. Prospects are eliminated who don't have the judgment to proactively manage their brand. With that said, candidates who show their authenticity by backing their brands as a thought leader through blogs, or get involved in associations that could benefit from your expertise and keep apprised of and even help shape industry trends through your involvement, have the definite advantage.

 

Your executive brand can take you far - even farther than you had originally envisioned, and more likely so if you proactively build and manage it. Be true to who you are at all times, but also be open to and even fearless about opportunities to stretch the definition of yourself if the opportunities or circumstances arise provided that your values and integrity are not compromised. Surround yourself with people with similar mindsets and support each other in building and extending your brands.

 

Resources:

  • Personal Branding: How to Find Your Audience, By Dan Schawbel, March 24th, 2010 http://blogs.bnet.com/career-advice/?p=186&tag=nl.e713



FountainBlue's March 15 When She Speaks Women in Leadership Series event was on the topic of Agility - The Key to Building a Successful Career and featured:

 

Facilitator Linda Popky, L2M Associates

Panelist Amanda Dutra, Senior Vice President of Career Management, Practice Leader for the Global Transition Center of Excellence in the Pacific Region NA, Right Management

Panelist Linda Holroyd, CEO, FountainBlue

Panelist Lisa Jing, Program Manager, Cisco

Panelist Shari H. Moore, GPHR, SPHR, Vice President, Human Resources-Global and Americas Sales and Services, Hitachi Data Systems

Panelist Phyllis Stewart Pires, SAP

 

Below are notes from the conversation.

Defined as the ability to leverage passion and talent for business objectives, agility is also about taking responsibility of your career, and having the initiative to challenge yourself in strategic ways. It's about understanding and working with the people around you as peers, mentors, partners, etc to focus on getting a job well done. It's also about focusing on what you DO know already, and applying that to your next role or challenge, and continuing to raise the bar for yourself and those around you. It's also about being open and flexible and resilient; choosing to learn with every experience, good or bad. It's about accepting where you are now, not being disappointed that your career is not going as planned, for rarely is a career one path, and rarely is it planned, especially these days!

 

Global megatrends are impacting how companies are functioning, and individuals must be agile enough to take charge of their career path despite the rapid changes. Below are some tips from the panelist on choosing agility:

 

  • Take the challenges that come your way, and find a way to be successful with every opportunity. Even if you don't succeed in the short term, or even if you fail altogether, make that a learning experience and apply that learning to your next adventure.
  • Exude confidence rather than ego, even if you're totally out of your comfort zone.
  • Understand what you're doing for whom for each new role, company or industry you adopt and ensure that you deliver excellent results at every turn.
  • Leverage mentors to help you adopt that proactive career path.
  • Don't let your role limit your abilities, your effectiveness or your image. Don't let it dictate HOW something gets done, just get it done YOUR WAY.
  • Emulate the behavior of others you admire, make them informal mentors. Dare to try doing it yourself, only do it your own way.
  • Sometimes it's better to ask forgiveness than to ask permission.
  • Own your brand and be visible to the right people so that the right opportunities come your way. Then open the door if opportunity knocks!
  • Proactively plan your career moves with your boss.
  • Everyone has their own unique value proposition. Know yours and show its value every day.
  • Don't be afraid to communicate your value in a self-confident way that's not about ego.
  • When you get the opportunity, say yes, and tell them why you would be a good choice for that opportunity with specific examples.
  • Think of yourself as a solution provider, not just someone with specific niche experiences. Think about market needs and market trends and how the solutions you can provide can help companies address these trends.
  • Learn to negotiate and advocate for your needs. Learn to communicate both orally and verbally, as someone who knows what they're doing and can get things done.
  • Build a support network to support your short term and long term career goals.
  • Put your health first - you can't help others unless you have the rest, exercise, nutrition, energy you need.

 

In conclusion, with the rapid global changes in technology and markets, and its impact on companies large and small, our panelists recommend that everyone proactively chooses career agility, an entrepreneurial spirit, and an extensive network as keys to a successful career.


FountainBlue's February 12 When She Speaks, Women in Leadership Series, on the topic of How to Throw More Balls Up Higher: Juggling Work-Life Balance in Demanding Times. A recording of the session is made available through the generous support of Adobe. http://my.adobe.acrobat.com/p53223679/

Facilitator Deborah Campbell, Director, Member Services, Western Region, Catalyst
Panelist Karen Catlin, Vice President, Core Services, Adobe Systems Inc.

Panelist Pat Cross, Vice President, Career Management, Right Management

Panelist Lisa Dearborn, Vice President, Leadership Development, Hitachi Data Systems
Panelist Natascha Thomson, Director of Global Ecosystem and Partner Marketing, SAP

Below are notes from our conversation.

Silicon Valley women leaders are challenged by the corporate and business pressures of high-stress, high-impact positions, while still juggling the personal demands of life and family, and squeezing in time for yourself. Each ball - from the heavy, urgent demands in a corporate environment to the home-and-personal demands of children, spouses, friends and others, to your own always-addressed-last personal needs for balance, health and growth - is important.

The panelists defined work-life balance in simple terms: making the time to do the things you want to do; understanding and acting on your personal priorities, ensuring that your life is more than your work; and being at your best both at home and work.

Our panelists concurred that establishing priorities on whats important to do, and implementing plans to ensure that you allocate time for each of these priorities is of paramount importance. You must first take the time to reflect continually on whats important to you, and have the discipline to ensure that the things that matter most to you come first.

They also remarked that everyone must take responsibility for establishing their own work-life balance - putting their own limits on the amount of work you take on at home and on the job, and being proactive in managing that balance, rather than feeling resigned and victimized.

Another core theme of the conversation revolved around managing expectations - that from others, that from ourselves, etc. The panelists were clear about having realistic expectations of yourself, and also establishing realistic expectations from your peers and colleagues at work. They warned about the perils of living up to others' expectations of you, and advised you to establish your own expectations for yourself. They also challenged our assumptions about what is expected at work, and invited us to set up new expectations which may require less time at work, while delivering the same or even more quality results. (Indeed, one of our panelists was able to work part time while raising a family and also rising the corporate ladder!) They cautioned us about guilt and perfectionistic tendencies will not serve our work objectives in the long time, and taking the time out to change gears and focus on others might actually make you more effective at work.

One strategy for managing expectations is to set clear boundaries and limits for yourself and for others you interact with at home and at work. For example, to help set expectations on the amount of time dedicated to a job, the panelists advised us to have clear work hours and only respond during those work hours. They also said that compromising on those boundaries for a few minutes might only accomplish a little bit more at work, while deeply cutting in to the other commitments you made to family, friends, self, etc.

The panelists advised us to delegate non-essential tasks to others at work and at home. Creating partnerships and building relationships at work to address work requirements is one win-for-all solution. An example at home is to negotiate clearly defined roles for members of your family, so that everyone contributes to daily chores, while also paying for services such as housekeeping and gardening, so that you can spend more quality time together. One caution to this strategy is to ensure that you dont delegate core tasks at work for example, or tasks that are relationship-building opportunities at work or home (for example, transporting your kids to and from school or activities might be a perfect conversation-time that you dont want to delegate).

Although the panelists remarked that women are particularly good at multi-tasking, they advised us to focus on single tasks, and single relationships as often as possible. Being 100% present with the people most important to you will help you build deep relationships, manage stress, and set a good example while showing them how much you value them.

The panelists recommended adopting stress-relief practices to help manage the heavy demands for professional women and men. Strategies ranged from adopting a hobby to regular meditation. Also, taking the time to appreciate all that you have - your work, your health, your friends, your accomplishments, your future, etc. will help you re-charge and maintain a happy balance.

In considering all the strategies and advice above, the overarching theme is that you are in charge of your own balance and happiness based on your personal values, and adopting a positive, dynamic, can-do outlook and strategy can help you make it so. The bottom line is that work-life balance IS do-able, but not all at once for all priorities, and not all the time.



FountainBlue's January 18 When She Speaks, Women in Leadership Series was on the topic of Expanding Your Circle of Influence: With or Without Authority and featured:

 

Facilitator Jo Miller, CEO, Women's Leadership Coaching Inc.

Panelist Kristine Gallegos-Haehl, Trade Professional Manager, PG&E

Panelist Linda Holroyd, CEO, FountainBlue

Panelist Gwen McDonald, SVP, Human Resources, NetApp

Panelist Titina Ott, Vice President, Organizational Effectiveness, Oracle

 

Below are notes from our conversation.

About Influence and Your Influencing Style

Influencing is to women like catnip is to cats - we cant resist it, as evidenced by the number of people in attendance, and the energy of all our participants and the event overall. It's important to be able to influence others around us to build momentum, to drive a cause forward, to rise within an organization, for personal satisfaction. A couple of definitions of influencing are defined below:

  • Jo: An influencer is someone who makes a greater difference than one person alone can make. Your circle of influence are those with whom you collaborate, to make stuff happen.
  • Titina: An influencer is someone who understands the dynamics of persuasion and how to use it to positively impact, situations, individuals and organizations. Your capability to influence is made up of your personal brand, knowledge and trust that others have with you.
  • Linda: An influencer is a leader who draws upon knowledge, passion, strategy and sheer will power to move things in a desired direction for a shared cause. An effective influencer leverages 'circles of influence' between different groups, consciously and effectively expanding how each group member will participate in expanding that circle of influence for all.

 

Effective Influencing Techniques with or without authority:

  • Always lead with your values and your integrity, but focus on generating measurable results.
    • You must always feel good about yourself and what you are doing. Doing the right thing is more important than moving the ball forward.
    • Be willing to make the tough choices and do what needs to be done, but do it with compassion and sensitivity, and where possible, maintain relationships despite the tough choices you need to make.
  • Know yourself.
    • Know your talents and align complementing talents around you and work together to generate measurable results.
    • Be passionate and speak your truth. But first invest the time to reflect and discover your truth.
    • Have tough compassion with high integrity.
  • Do your homework.
    • Know your audience.
    • Be strategic about who you work with and how to connect with them.
    • Knowledge is important. Take the time to explore an issue and the people around the issue and build a strategy on how to influence each stakeholder before reaching out to them.
    • Understand what your level of acceptable risk is for any situation.
    • Understand the other partys' acceptable risk and what theyre willing to leave on the table.
  • Invest in your network.
    • Work with partners and build collaborations and relationships.
    • Help everyone around you to step up.
  • Learning to effectively influence others is a journey, not a destination.
    • Its a journey of personal growth and discovery. Let each milestone, each setback set you further down that path.
    • Understand your past successes and failures and your current challenges. Graph how what you did say and do and what you should have said and done, and take that learning as you go forward.
    • Keep practicing your influencing techniques. Sometimes failures are more effective than successes in building your skill-set, depending on your mind-set!
    • From failures, learn what information you didnt have, how you could have done things differently.
    • Decompress and reflect following failures to better ensure that you learn from them.
  • Communicate with passion and clarity.
    • Build and ensure alignment between all stakeholders with clear communication on objectives, passions, goals, results, etc.
    • Be animated and passionate to better motivate others to adopt the cause.
    • Speak your truth, but be aware of HOW you speak that truth to best ensure that others respond well. Be aware also of what the other party is ready to hear and what they would respond to best.
  • Be confident and persistent. Theres no substitution for that.
    • Have the confidence to initiate rather than waiting for something to happen. However, be prepared before you initiate.
    • Have the determination to make great things happen.
    • Dont assume that someone needs to give you permission or authority to step up. Take the initiative.
    • Dont assume that someone else has a better idea or suggestion. Jump in and add your two cents, even if you dont think you have the experience or perspective to add your input.
    • Sometimes, you should act and beg forgiveness later. But make sure you do your homework before you act.

 

Helpful networking organizations:

  • Future Women Leaders http://www.futurewomenleaders.org 
  • FWE&E http://www.fweande.org
  • Invent Your Future http://www.inventyourfuture.com
  • PBWC http://www.pbwc.org
  • SDForum Womens Group http://www.sdforum.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=Page.viewPage&pageId=898&parentID=472&nodeID=1 
  • WIC http://blog.womeninconsulting.org/
  • WITI http://www.witi.com



FountainBlue's December 11 When She Speaks, Women in Leadership Series was on the topic of Leading Through a Changing of the Guard and featured:

 

Facilitator Marcia Stein, Stein Consulting, Inc. and HR Women and Friends

Panelist Deborah Coburn, Manager, Sales & Operations Planning, Americas, LifeScan

Panelist Julie Criscenti Heck, Director, Global Partner Marketing, VMware - Virtualization Software Solutions

Panelist Laura Debacker, Sr. Director of Leadership Development and Employee Engagement, Sun Microsystems

Panelist Lori Smith, Director of HR, Cisco

 

Below are notes from our conversation.

In business, you have to keep moving quickly, in response to market and customer demands. Standing still can mean a death sentence, even if the short-term numbers look good! So corporate strategies are proactively changed, and new corporate executive teams assume the reigns in the quest of proactive change.

 

Our panel this month had participated in many of these 'changing of the guards' as an executive from the incumbent and from the newly-hired perspective and shared their insights on how new corporate management teams really hit the ground running by leading a smooth changing of executive suite members, by minimizing cultural impact, while ushering in necessary near processes, people and procedures, thereby maximizing efficient bottom-line progress through a transition. The panelists shared the following advice about coping with inevitable change:

         Embrace the diversity in your team, and celebrate that everyone would respond to change differently.

o    Help each team member cope with change, while also accepting that certain members may not be right for the team, as things change.

o    Dont take change personally, and help others not to.

o    Having a sense of humor will help you keep your perspective during changes, and also help address stress inherent in managing change.

o    Have realistic expectations of yourself and others. Dont try to do it all, embrace it all yourself, and dont expect others to. But do be open to support and help from others.

o    Learn from everyone around you, so you can identify what next to be, what next to do, especially in an environment thats constantly changing.

         Be strategic and make change an opportunity.

o    Find the opportunity with every change, and help others around you to adjust to any change, and find their opportunities too.

o    Strategic alignment of goals between people, groups, partners, etc. is an important element of for implementing successful change.

         Maintain your leadership, reputation, core values and competencies especially during change.

o    Be composed and confident during change, despite your internal feelings, to help foster confidence around the change. With that said, also be candid and transparent personally one-on-one about how changes are affecting you and what you are doing to cope.

o    As you work through change, keep your integrity and your reputation intact. Have a strong moral compass while undergoing change, and ensure that you follow-up and follow-through with your role in creating that change.

o    As a leader, connect with people at all levels, and inspire them to embrace the change by understanding why the change is needed, how it is aligned with them personally, and how it can be best implemented. Mentor others along the way, and be open to being mentored by others as well.

o    Being self-aware about your own strengths and weaknesses will help you better and more quickly adjust to the changes inevitable in any leadership role within a company.

o    Be politically savvy, working with others to create, understand, communicate and implement change.

o    Adopt learning agility habits and encourage the adoption for others, which would make it easier for everyone to adapt to change more quickly.

         Visionary leadership is critical, but not enough to ensure successful change. Leaders at all levels must be engaged in the changed management process, and trained and empowered to implement the change.

o    Clear and constant communication of change why its needed, how it will be implemented, how it will impact others, etc., - are a critical component of any successful change.

o    When undergoing change, focus on whats under your control.

o    Try sticking through change, even when it feels uncomfortable. Often, there are long term benefits to the changes, and widespread change in corporate structure and direction are at times necessary for growth, particular in competitive markets.

o    As a rule of thumb, people learn 70% through experiences 20% through peers and networking, and 10% through more formal trainings. Keep that in mind while youre experiencing that change and benefit from the learnings inherent in that change.

o    Help others develop accountability strategies to help implement change.

 

Helpful books on change management:

         My Iceberg is Melting by John Kotter http://www.amazon.com/Our-Iceberg-Melting-Succeeding-Conditions/dp/031236198X

         Who Moved My Cheese?: An Amazing Way to Deal with Change in Your Work and in Your Life by Spencer Johnson and Kenneth Blanchard http://www.amazon.com/Who-Moved-My-Cheese-Amazing/dp/0399144463/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1260650175&sr=1-2

 

We invite interactive conversations around these notes and other topics of interest to members of the community and also welcome you to forward our notes to interested groups, provided that you copy us on your distribution, and that you provide acknowledgment to FountainBlue and our sponsors and speakers, as our notes are copyrighted by FountainBlue for 2006-2010.



FountainBlues November 13 When She Speaks, Women in Leadership Series event, on the topic of Corporate Women on Nonprofit Boards. Please join me in thanking our hosts at Symantec for their support of this event and for the series! Please also join me also in thanking our lively and engaging panel for so generously sharing their perspectives and advice:

 

  • Facilitator Wendy Beecham, CEO, FWE&E
  • Panelist Pamela E. Evans, Director, Executive Programs, NetApp
  • Panelist Cecily Joseph, Director, Corporate Responsibility, Legal and Public Affairs, Symantec
  • Panelist Marilyn Nagel, Chief Diversity Officer, Cisco
  • Panelist Keren Pavese, Program Manager, Western Division Office of Sustainability, Community Outreach & Diversity Councils, EMC Corporation

 

Below are notes from our conversation.

Our panel emphasized that serving on nonprofit boards actually benefits them personally and professionally, provided that the board and 1) the cause is something they feel passionate about, 2) the people are people you enjoy serving with, 3) the projects are engaging, fulfilling, and require your support, and 4) the workload and expectations are manageable. Indeed, each panelist emphasized how serving on nonprofit boards helped them with enhance their professional knowledge and understand and even impact industry trends, with their community outreach goals, working in alignment with corporate objectives, and with their personal development, providing enriching experiences which stretches expertise and perspective.

 

If youre considering joining a board, he key to a successful nonprofit board experience is to be strategic about which board is right for you. Start by understanding what youre passionate about and where you might contribute. Think also about what you get back by serving, whether its connections or expertise or knowledge for example. Then, before making a board commitment, you may want to consider doing some volunteer work and getting to know the people involved. Remember that you are not just evaluating the leader or any individual, but the whole organization as a system, so things like how the staff and executive director and board members get along is a very important thing to consider.

 

Be also knowledgeable about responsibilities and expectations and terms, particularly when it comes to legal (do they have insurance for board members for example) and fiduciary and fundraising/development requirements (are their finances secure and transparent, are you required to contribute and fundraise and if so, how much) and terms of service (how long, how often). Treat the nonprofit board position evaluation like a job interview, and have both parties evaluate the fit before making a commitment.

 

If you are considering transferring from the corporate world to the nonprofit world, follow some of the strategies above, including identifying your skills and passion and getting to know the organization and its alignment with your objectives and your alignment to theirs. Although salaries are smaller, titles can be bigger, and the work may be more fulfilling in many ways.

 

Sometimes, board participation is in alignment with day-to-day work duties, and is part of your responsibilities in your role. Even when its not, board participation might be positive included in performance review meetings, particularly when direct results such as skills enhancement, partnership development, and other tangible results are outcomes from that participation.

 

If you DO decide to join a board, make sure that you do the give/get, know what youre giving and what youre getting, and know also when to get out, change your commitment if necessary to ensure that all parties continue to meet objectives. If you are unsatisfied with your participation on a board, consider also asking to change or enhance your role and contribution, or toning down time and task requirements before deciding to get out entirely. If you DO decide to leave, work with your nonprofit to recruit a replacement.

 

The panel concluded by reiterating how personally and professionally fulfilling it is to serve on nonprofit boards, and encourage others to evaluate for themselves whether this is also a good option for them.

 

Resources:

  • Nonprofit Board Basics, from a workshop provided by Cisco, generously shared by Cisco:  http://www.cisco.com/web/about/ac49/ac55/Nonprofit_Board_Basics_2009_11_10b.pdf
  • If youre seeking a board position, visit Boardnet USA http://www.boardnetusa.org/public/home.asp and search for a nonprofit match for someone with your skill set, education and interest.
  • The Young, Nonprofit Professionals Network has a list of nonprofit resources which may be useful for those looking at going into the nonprofit sector. http://208.106.176.241/resources/ResourceLinks.asp
  • CompassPoint in Milpitas which provides a range of services for nonprofit organizations http://www.compasspoint.org
  • Foundation Center in San Francisco, which has a directory of foundations online http://www.foundationcenter.org

 


FountainBlues October 9 When She Speaks, Women in Leadership Series event was on the topic of Women Leading Innovation and featured:


    Facilitators Krista Henley and Rossella Derickson, Corporate Wisdom and SBODN
    Panelist Nina Bhatti, Principal Scientist, HP Labs
    Panelist Daniela Busse, Director of User Experience, SAP Labs LLC
    Panelist Christine Duran, Translation Technology Manager, Globalization, Core Services Group, Adobe
    Panelist Claudia Galvan, Lead, International Program Management Group, Microsoft
    Panelist Jessica Roland, Director, International Product Operations, Content Management & Archiving, EMC Corporation

Below are notes from our conversation.
'Innovation' is today's buzzword - considered integral to an organization's culture, its competitive advantage. Our panel of women leaders represented how innovation is successfully approached from different perspectives in different cultures. They passionately shared the need for corporations to remain innovative, supporting incremental advancements and ground-breaking innovations as well. Whether innovations involve new processes and tools and new business models, or whether they involve novel ways to doing things and looking at things, our panelists shared their stories of how to successfully forge innovation, even in the most resistant culture and teams, and even under the most challenging of circumstances.

Below are pearls of wisdom, generously shared by the panel:
    As a woman leading innovation, think of yourself as someone who sets the climate, culture and direction for the organization, making it easy for your team to develop, test and deliver innovations which serve the needs of real customers.
o    Leverage your communication skills to motivate, engage, and otherwise drive projects forward. Encourage others to do the same.
o    Leverage the differences between people to spark innovation and camaraderie. How will differing viewpoints add to the equation, making the end result more likely to serve the intended audience, or improving the development and delivery system altogether, for example?
o    Find a way to fit in and be accepted, be credible to your team and partners. You have to be accepted as one of them before you will be accepted as a team leader, particularly as a woman in a technical position.
o    Dont take things personally. Find a way to always focus on the customer and the company, while taking the high road, and using your communication skills and sense of humor.
    The pressure to do more with less during tough times can lead to innovation in business processes. It can also incentivize teams and companies to partner with others more efficiently. So if you think of these challenges as opportunities, what more can you and your team do?
    Building relationships and a support base are integral to the success of any leader. Innovation leaders should socialize their programs and plans with key decision-makers to best strategize how to forge innovation in specific key areas for the organization.
o    Engagement of all stakeholders is a critical component of any innovation, throughout the creation and execution process. To get buy-in from your stakeholders, understand what would motivate them to get involved and speak to their interests when proposing your project.
    Be strategic on your innovation focus. Know what you want to innovate, why you need to innovate it, how it will be innovation, for whom it will serve, etc. Get executive sponsorship and engagement to ensure alignment of your innovation objections with those of the organization. Be strategic also about how your innovation program is executed.
o    Time your message to key stakeholders to optimize receptivity to your program.
o    Push innovation to suppliers and strategic partners where appropriate.
o    Be customer-focused in your innovations.
o    Networking outside the company with a specific purpose can lead to real short-term and long-term innovations and forge strategic partnerships benefiting both parties.
    Be persistent and resourceful and creative in driving the innovation process forward. Its never an easy task. People, groups, ideas, and other factors may provide roadblocks to your best-laid plans. However, understanding and expecting these types of roadblocks will help you navigate treacherous waters and build momentum for your innovation project.
    Know thyself: Know what youre good at and leverage that. Be confident in what you bring to the table, while also valuing the gifts of others.
    Be recognized: Dont just take a back seat and let others take the credit. Dont be afraid to promote your work. Be courageous and take the risks and the responsibilities as well as the rewards of leading your innovation project.

Innovation Resources were also recommended:
    MindMap This highly effective diagramming method illustrates thoughts, concepts, relationships, associations, and consequences all connected to a central hub representing the main idea. http://www.mindmap.com.
    Bright Idea, The Global Leader In On-Demand Innovation Management http://www.brightidea.com/new.bix
    Emulate Microsofts ThinkWeek concept, and dedicate a week which encourages innovation submissions for review by executive management and peers.

In conclusion, the panelists agreed that ongoing, customer-centric, collaborative innovation, well executed, is necessary for corporate vitality and growth. It serves the needs of the customer, while also providing a challenge for the teams produces products and services for that customer, and serving the bottom line needs for any corporation. Indeed, innovation, well executed benefits all.



FountainBlues September 11 When She Speaks, Women in Leadership Series was on the topic of Successful Cross-Cultural Communications and featured:

 

  •          Facilitator Francine Gordon, FGordon Group, SDForum Womens Group
  •          Panelist Roya Afshar, Software Development Director, Oracle
  •          Panelist Khrystyne Heard, Manager, Human Resources, LifeScan
  •          Panelist Debi Hirshlag, VP, Worldwide Human Resources, Flextronics
  •          Panelist Neerja Raman, Research Fellow, Stanford University, MediaX Distinguished Visiting Scholar
  •          Panelist Peggy Wolf, Manager, Cisco Services Global I&D

 

Below are notes from our conversation.

 

About Cross-Cultural Communications

When one thinks about cross-cultural theres an assumption that its about people from different backgrounds, but its much broader than that. It encompasses differences in geography, languages, generations, companies, functional areas, regions and industries. It doesnt happen just when you travel, or just when you talk to someone over the phone. It happens with the staff, partners, and other associates you work with.

 

The panelists shared some sage advice critical for successfully communicating across- culture/ generation/ company/ area/ geography/ industry/etc.

  • Accept and understand that everyones different, yet we are more alike that we are different. Close the cultural communication gaps where appropriate, yet embrace the opportunities in the differences because diversity in perspectives, talents, opinions, etc. lead to new ways of thinking and doing things which may generate innovation and financial returns for your company.
  • Build relationship of trusts across people with different backgrounds, and help others in your group do the same.
    • Strive to understand why there are differences, and collaborate with others to find a way to meet common goals.
    • Dont be afraid to ask questions of trusted others, but first build relationships of trust before asking.
    • Leverage technology and particularly social networking tools to build relationships between people and groups who are culturally diverse.
  • Be the kind of authentic leader that supports cultural diversity, and leverage that diversity for business results.
    • Set the tone for others on respecting other peoples culture, recognizing similarities, embracing differences.
    • Dont just listen but also HEAR what is said and intended.
    • Adjust the way you interact with others based on what you learn about each culture in general and each individual within that culture.
    • Cultural differences impact peoples perceptions about someones directness and aggressiveness and intentions. Someone who speaks clearly and assertively in one persons perception might be perceived as self-serving or combative from another persons perspective. Asking questions (particularly open-ended), understanding objectives and intentions of interacting parties may help address misunderstandings based on these cultural differences.
    • If youre open and sincere and communicate respectfully people from a different culture will respect and appreciate your efforts and intentions and give you the benefit of the doubt. It may help overcome language barriers and inadvertent social faux pas.
    • Develop your emotional intelligence and that of your team.
    • Use brain maps to help make quick assessments and judgments about people who are different than you, but dont be afraid to re-draw the map based on new information/current interactions.
  • When resolving conflicts between people with different cultures, focus on how you can make YOUR priorities and perspective more important to that other person.
  • Be an expert communicator, recognizing that communication takes many forms from verbal to written to body language.
  • Be sensitive to how you are communicating, how others are communicating, and how you and others are responding to that communication and why.
  • Invite those who are not forthcoming to communicate and share in alternative ways like one-on-one for example.
  • Manage your emotions when communicating with others. Make it a left-brained/analytical task to understand what happened to stir your emotions. Create a plan and manage relationships and interactions based on your understanding of what happened, and have fact-based communications with the other party.
  • To best respect and connect with others from another culture, leverage available resources and continue to learn about cultural differences, but just use it as a guideline. It is far better to first study, understand and respect other cultures and adjust your understanding, assumptions and actions while actually interacting with others from that culture.
  • Your knowledge of how cultures are changing will help you better manage and lead.
  • In general, younger generation, far more open and inquisitive about the world. Developing countries with access to technology are fascinated about the world culturally and economically. Technology is leveling the playing field for the younger generations, which will impact the workplace overall, more and more and sooner than we think!
  • Above all, dont go into the unconscious incompetence the mode of making assumptions, following stereotypes.

 

Recommended Resources:

  • o        Phantoms in the Brain: Probing the Mysteries of the Human Mind, by V. Ramachandran and Sandra Blakeslee, http://www.amazon.com/Phantoms-Brain-Probing-Mysteries-Human/dp/0688172172
  • o        Use the Belbin Team Role Profiles to understand the natural inclinations/roles of those on your team http://www.belbin.com/rte.asp?id=10
  • o        Talking 9 to 5: Men and Women at Work, by Deborah Tannen http://www.amazon.com/Talking-Women-Work-Deborah-Tannen/dp/0380717832

 


FountainBlues August 14 When She Speaks, Women in Leadership Series was on the topic of Politics at Work: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly and featured:
  • Facilitator Bobbie LaPorte, RAL & Associates
  • Panelist Mercedes De Luca, Global Customer Experience and Chief Information Officer at myShape.com, previously VP of Global IT at Yahoo!
  • Panelist Lise E Edwards, Oracle Women's Leadership (OWL), Program Manager, Oracle Human Resources
  • Panelist Susan Lai, Senior Director, Finance, Symantec Corporation
  • Panelists Eileen Sullivan, Group Director, Cadence

Below are notes from the conversation.

About Politics
Lets face it office politics is a reality for everyone, regardless of the size of your organization or your position. But its good news that its a hot topic, and that people are more comfortable talking about it now than before, and supporting each other in addressing political challenges and understanding political nuances.

When asked to define politics, there was discussion about agendas and objectives and leveraging your personal influence and power, and that of others to build that agenda. The panelists concurred that at times there are unnecessary negative connotations around politics, so they advised that we know and accept that politics shapes their career and day-to-day work life.

However, there was also consensus that the WAY this is done will influence how others perceive you. Theres a difference between communicating transparently and building and leveraging relationships and achieving objectives no matter the cost to others.

Advice for Navigating the Political Waters in YOUR Organization
The panelists shared lessons learned about miscommunications and misunderstandings about intent, about motives, about objectives and emphasized the need to build relationships, ask questions, seek alignment, understand objectives, and work together in alignment to achieve shared corporate goals.

Repeatedly, the panelists emphasized the importance of building relationships with people at all levels, and the need to partner with people at many levels to make things happen. And a critical factor for developing relationships is clear and open communication, with an emphasis asking a lot of questions and reaching an understanding on motivations rather than working on assumptions and judgments.

There was an equal emphasize on understanding yourself, and your own passions and objectives, and maintaining relationships while staying true to yourself. Indeed, if you remain true to yourself, you will build your own brand and people will know what to expect when they work with you.

The panelists emphasized that its important to orient discussions around whats right for the company and focus on facts and work, not taking actions and words personally.

Specific pearls of wisdom are listed below:
  •     Take the opportunity to interview with as many people as possible, to get to know the company and its people prior to starting there. Even after you land, dedicate some time to meeting with key influencers and develop those relationships.
  •     Dont lose yourself, your own sense of style. Know when and where to compromise that style.
  •     In every situation, you have a choice. Be the person you want to be, or you may regret what you did.
  •     Even if you DO regret what you did, be truthful, forthright, humble in your communications with the people you hurt along the way.
  •     Decide whether which is the right battle for you at the right time.
  •     Dont take sides.
  •     Dont let it get personal.
  •     Seek to understand before being understood.
  •     Be clear to the people youre working with.
  •     Ask for help.
  •     It can be tiring and lonely to constantly play political games.
  •     Network.
  •     Make your mistakes also your learnings.
  •     Men look at politics differently. They see it as a game, a competition, and they dont take it personally.
  •     Not everyone has the best interest of all in mind. Handle closely those who dont.
  •     Have the meeting before the meeting so that you can plan and align and avoid surprises.
  •     Spread your circle of influence.
  •     Lead with your passion.
  •     Be politically astute: pick up on things that are said and unsaid about a person, a group, an organization. Plan accordingly.
  •     Understand why someone you dont respect might be valued by others, particularly if they are respected by others high up in the management chain.
  •     Rise above the bullying.
  •     Be self-aware while being other-centric.
  •     Be skilled at influencing up.
  •     Ask for what you want.
  •     Mentor others. Be a mentee.


FountainBlues July 10 When She Speaks, Women in Leadership event was on the topic of Womens Leadership Styles: Whats Right for You? and featured:

 

  • Facilitator Rosemarie Carbone, Serial VP of HR
  • Panelist Nora Calvillo, Senior Product Manager, Adobe
  • Panelist Michaela Guiney, Product Engineering Director, Cadence
  • Panelist Nancy Long, Senior Vice President, Global Human Resources, Hitachi Data Systems
  • Panelist Marleen McDaniel, Serial Entrepreneur and Business Adviser

 

Below are notes from the conversation.

The panelists concurred that men and women are definitely different in their outlook, and the way they lead and manage and communicate. Accepting that there ARE these differences, and working with these differences will help women to better lead and succeed, particularly in workplaces dominated by men. Understanding the cultural tolerance for factors such as use of profanity (whether it is religious, sexual or excremental) and being constantly aware of both the audience (gender, age, geography, etc.) and the objectives will help leaders of either gender better communicate clearly and lead effectively, driving results. In addition, embracing more typically female communication and collaboration skills will benefit leaders of either gender.

 

Our panelists advised women to focus on the business objectives, backed up by information and facts, while also considering each audience and their individual perspectives. They also encouraged women to do more of the things that men do to make them successful: from leveraging contacts more proactively to asking for what they want, to promoting themselves more objectively and strategically and ensuring that there is a support base of advocates with influence who can help them succeed.

 

With that said, the panelists encouraged us to identify and leverage our own strengths. Interestingly, they agreed that making mistakes and trying things that dont feel right are both very important lessons needed to help people reach their gender-independent true north position leadership styles that are in alignment with values, beliefs and abilities. With this type of confidence and leadership, one can serve as a role model for teams and organizations, while also helping determine whether the current environment is in alignment with ones personal style.

 

In conclusion, the panelists are advocating for a balance of being tough, especially when necessary, but also being supportive, collaborative and compassionate, while focusing on business objectives. Taking responsibility for actions, parking your ego while focusing on facts, and transparently and clearly communicating progress are all factors that build trust within teams and organizations, and help drive results for the organization. Getting feedback and support from mentors, team and others will help leaders focus on self-improvement qualities which would benefit all. Lastly, as you climb up that corporate ladder, take the time to connect with and support others along the way.

 

Resources:

  • She Wins, You Win: The Most Important Rule Every Businesswoman Needs to Know by Gail Evans.  Gail Evans is a journalist and was the first female executive vice-president of CNN. She became a best-selling author with her first book, "Play Like a Man Win Like a Woman: What Men Know About Success That Women Need to Learn" http://www.amazon.com/She-Wins-You-Win-Businesswoman/dp/1592400256
  • Nice Girls Don't Get the Corner Office: 101 Unconscious Mistakes Women Make That Sabotage Their Career by Dr. Lois P. Frankel. She is the president of Corporate Coaching International as well as the author of numerous articles and several books. With over twenty years of experience in human resources development, she is a frequently invited guest on talk radio, television, conferences, corporate workshops, and retreats. http://www.amazon.com/Nice-Girls-Dont-Corner-Office/dp/0446531324
  • Coaching Yourself to Leadership: Five Key Strategies for Becoming an Integrated Leader by Ginny O'Brien. Ginny is an executive and corporate coach, specializing in leadership development and womens advancement. http://www.amazon.com/Coaching-Yourself-Leadership-Ginny-OBrien/dp/0874258693


FountainBlue's June 12 When She Speaks event was on the topic of Working with Millennials and featured:

  • Facilitator Lisa Orrell, The Generation Relations Expert, The Orrell Group, author of Millennials Incorporated
  • Panelist Urvi Bhandari, Sales Manager, AT&T
  • Panelist Megan Campi, Customer Service Relationship Manager, Cisco
  • Panelist Kristen Dearing, Leader of Strategic Sales, Global Communications and Media, Sun Microsystems
  • Panelist Claudia Galvan, Lead, International Program Management Group, Microsoft
  • Panelist Shalini Govil-Pai, Lead PM, Google
  • Panelist Lori Smith, Director of HR, Cisco

 

Working with Millennials

The Millennial Generation, otherwise known as Generation Y, is no longer made-up of just kids and teens. Born in the early 80s and 90s, the eldest are now graduating college and entering and impacting the professional workforce. As the earliest Baby Boomers are starting to reach retirement age, and with the increasing pressures for organizations large and small to recruit and retain in key talent from the millennial generation, it is becoming increasingly more important to understand and work with this generation of workers.

 

Millennials are in general energetic with a plethora of ideas and a direct, assertive style in communicating them, without necessarily following established business etiquette or without respecting chain-of-command expectations (speaking to top management over direct bosses for example). They are globally-minded and techno-philic, leveraging social media tools such as YouTube, FaceBook, texting and Twitter. They are used to multi-tasking (texting during meetings, committing to many work and life projects and juggling multiple priorities), to confidently speaking whats on their mind (directly communicating their goals and objectives), and to being global in their interests and connections.

 

With all these strengths, a noted weakness is that many Millennials are more interested in generating ideas than in seeing them through to results and conclusions, often distracted by the next idea. There was also a conversation about the perceived sense of entitlement that many Millennials have, and how to better understand and work with Millennials who are perceived as having a sense of entitlement. There was general agreement that it is more a perception based on the confident, direct, salary- and role- centered communications and desire to move quickly and make a positive difference than an ACTUAL desire for privileges and rights and title, etc, without merit. Therefore, the suggestion from the panel is for Millennials to understand how they are coming across and folks of younger and older generations to understand the Millennials perspective and therefore be less likely to take offense to it.

 

The panel shared some sage and practical advice on how to recruit, retain and communicate with Millennials. The overall emphasis was on training managers to be more resourceful, more communicative, and more flexible in understanding what motivates Millennials, and in keeping them engaged in projects which interest them, and specific suggestions are listed below.

  • Leverage the strengths and global interests of Millennials to direct them into leadership opportunities outside work, while also keeping them engaged at work.
  • Challenge managers to make their projects appear more compelling and exciting to Millennials.
  • Encourage managers to open communication channels between Millennials and senior management as an opportunity to share ideas, motivate Millennials and even provide reverse-mentoring opportunities.
  • Initiate friendly competitions leveraging social media will help Millennials participate in strategic conversations ensuring that technologies and ideas address the needs of younger target audiences, for example.
  • Help Millennials to develop patience while building successes and skills and personal brand as they strive to achieve their short-term and long-term career objectives.
  • Provide continual feedback and communications to Millennials as they were raised in an age of instant communication and crave this level of feedback.
  • Leverage global communication technology to better attract and retain Millennials.
  • Take every opportunity to mentor and support high-potential Millennials, for they are our future leaders.
  • Welcome and encourage play in the workplace, from scooters to XBoxes for example, as part of the corporate culture.
  • Engage Millennials in strategies to better communicate with other Millennials and every else, through social networking channels.

 

Leaders and organizations will find that following the practices noted above is not only going to better attract and retain Millennials, but it will positively impact workers and overall culture. Indeed, Millennials speak for other workers when they express displeasure or ideas for change, but they are more vocal and direct about expressing their ideas, and less tolerant if change doesnt happen. Listening to the needs of Millennials and making the changes will positively impact working conditions for all.

 

Resources:

  • Order one of Lisa Orrells Books, Millennials Incorporated by visiting http://www.amazon.com/Millennials-Incorporated-Lisa-Orrell/dp/1932279822/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1194980814&sr=1-1. FountainBlue members may also receive a 20% discount off Lisas speaking and training services http://www.millennialsincorporated.com.

FountainBlues May 8 When She Speaks, Women in Leadership Series was on the topic of The Mentors in Our Lives and featured:

  • Facilitator Kim Wise, CEO, Mentor Resources
  • Panelist Martha Galley, Senior Director, Windows Live Business Development, Microsoft
  • Panelist Ruth Gaube, VP and Deputy Executive Council, Symantec
  • Panelist Amy Gonzales, Regional West Coast Director, Women Unlimited
  • Panelist Shivani Govil, Corporate Strategy Group, Office of the CEO, SAP
  • Panelist Darcy Kiefaber, HR, LifeScan

 

Below are notes from the conversation:

Our esteemed panel shared their perspectives on the importance of mentoring for their personal development, for the resiliency of their organizations, and for the general support of the network and ecosystem. Their view is that being a mentor supports your organization, whether your mentee is within the organization or outside it; and that being a mentee is an investment in your own success and leadership. Serving in both roles provides benefits to all parties. Mentorship benefits include skill development, confidence building, soft skills, political astuteness, etc., and can support successful career management, competency development, personal and professional development, etc., Below are some pearls of wisdom shared from the experience of being a mentor and being a mentee:

 

  • Believe in yourself, have self confidence.
  • Choose what you do: just because you CAN doesnt mean you SHOULD.
  • Manage a Work/Life Balance.
  • Trust your instincts.
  • Lighten up, keep things in perspective.
  • Be comfortable taking measured risks.
  • Listen to the advice that you give to others.
  • Appreciate your personal skills.
  • Broaden your perspective by engaging with people at all levels and backgrounds.

 

In general you should be strategic about the best mentoring strategy for you considering factors such as why youd like to be mentored, what your strengths are, what objectives you have, who you should approach, etc., With that as a given, there are a wide range of successful mentoring relationships mentorship across roles, across organizations, across geographies, etc., So be strategic about how youd like to grow through mentorship (as a mentor or a mentee) and flexible about how you get those benefits.

 

As you seek the right mentor for you, be specific about your goals and your skills, and consider tactical factors such as location and time commitment etc., before reaching out to your targeted list of potential mentors, generally who are two levels above where you are within an organization. Then have the confidence to approach the targeted mentor and impress with your clarity on goals, objectives, roles, etc., and they will be more likely to make that mentoring commitment.

 

Remember that mentoring relationships are dynamic and interactive, and be flexible enough to change your mentors and your goals and relationship as you progress. Mentors may become mentees for example, another mentor might be needed in another area, work/life balance challenges might become more or less important, etc.,

 

Many of the best corporations are invested in the success of their workforce and support structured and grassroots affinity and mentoring circle programs designed to support the staff. Investigate what your organization is doing in support of its people, and how you can contribute to it and benefit from it.

 

Whether youre within a corporation, in a start-up, in transition, or on your own, develop a mentoring plan that works for you, benefiting yourself, your organization, your community.


FountainBlues April 10 When She Speaks, Women in Leadership Series was on the topic of Leading with Power, Influence and Integrity and featured:

 

  • Facilitator Camille Smith, Founder/President, Work In Progress Coaching
  • Panelist Erna Arnesen, VP of Global Services, Channels and Alliances, Cisco
  • Panelist Nina Bhatti, Principal Scientist, HP Labs
  • Panelist Nancy Long, Sr Vice President of Human Resources, Hitachi Data Systems
  • Panelist Alexandra Woody, Sr. Dir. Program Management & FPLC, Flextronics

 

Below are notes from the conversation.

About Leading with Power, Influence and Integrity

  • Power, influence and integrity are three inter-connected circles.
  • Whereas there are many ways to describe power, the concept of integrity is more nebulous. It refers to a concept of wholeness, of alignment with your personal values, as well as that of your organization and your team.
  • Defining leadership moments are not easy. There will be conflict, resistance, difficult circumstances. You may test a relationship, or even jeopardize your job. If you are up to the task and doing the right thing based on your personal assessment, your personal moral standards, it will prepare you for more of these opportunities to learn and grow and lead.
  • Leading with power, influence and integrity takes the strength and intelligence to make plans and the courage to execute on them, especially under difficult circumstances, especially when many variables impact the right course of action.
  • Leadership goes well beyond positional power, where someone has the authority to manage other people or projects and might rightfully use coercion as a strategy. People can also gain power by becoming an expert/authority on a specific topic, by encouraging/reinforcing others around them.
    • Even if you have positional power, use that power judiciously. Empowerment and engagement are much more effectively at getting things done and building positive relationships.
  • Power over is about coercion, being domineering. Power to is more about affecting change. Power with is centered on collaboration. Power Within is centered on yourself.
Advice for Leading with Power, Influence and Integrity
  • Dont shrink from any conversations with yourself, with others. Have the confidence and ability to speak up and keep speaking up until you have nothing further to say.
    • Insist on a seat at the table.
  • Proactively manage your relationships with others, AND your relationship with yourself.
    • Focus on people as they are the most important assets.
    • Surround yourself with people who can support you and believe in you.
    • Leadership is not painted in black and white. Be aware of the nuances of behaviors and interactions and manage accordingly.
  • Be passionate and hold to your true north values, your personal moral standards.
    • It may be perceived that adhering to your moral standards would make you less powerful, but actually the opposite is true. When you act with integrity people take notice and give you more power, more influence.
    • Figuring out whats right and wrong might not be as difficult as deciding between one of two good things.
    • Focus both on your core values but also on the core values of your organization. Ensure alignment when youre considering joining a company, and as you work with the company.
  • Consider strategically who will be impacted by actions and decisions made and plan accordingly.
    • Be aware that a lot of people are watching what you say and dont say, what you do and dont do. Your next opportunities, indeed your reputation, will be impacted by the actions and decisions you make day to day, every day.
    • Bring a skill of value to the table.
  • Accept but manage your emotions. Most people are less effective at getting things done if too much emotion is distracting them from doing the tasks at hand, or the strategic thinking needed to achieve objectives.
  • Say what you will do, and do what you say you will do.
  • Leadership is about doing the right thing, even though no ones going to know. Oprah Winfrey
  • Have the discipline and control to influence your power over others lives. Clint Eastwood


FountainBlues March 13 When She Speaks, Women in Leadership Series event was on the topic of Agility - The Key to Building a Successful Career and featured:

  • Facilitator Sandra Wales, President, Wales Investments, Inc.
  • Panelist Pat Cross, Vice President, Career Management, Right Management
  • Panelist Lisa Dearborn, Vice President, Leadership Development, Hitachi Data Systems
  • Panelist Lisa Jing, Program Manager, Integrative Health, Cisco
  • Panelist Patricia Wimberly, Sr. Manager, Solutions Practice, Global Services - Western Division, EMC Corporation

 

In this century, it is much more difficult to plan your career path, as there is more fluidity within and across corporations, across global markets, plus better acceptance of people moving from one role or industry to another. This month's panel will focus on agility as the key to building a successful career, featuring women who have changed roles and industries, positions and companies. They will share their stories of successes and challenges, and also share how they are supporting others to do the same.

 

Below are notes from the conversation:

 

Thoughts on Why Agility Is So Important

  • Being agile helps you leverage your skills in different industries, and will help you better leverage your abilities and strengths and better grow and expand yourself into new areas, skills and networks.
  • Being agile displays your leadership ability and flexibility, your ability to lead and succeed using skills which are transferable from a variety of situations.
  • Being agile helps you position yourself for new opportunities in new companies, roles, countries, industries.
  • Being agile may provide huge financial benefits.
  • In the best case scenario, career agility can help you progressively become all that you can be personally and professionally.

 

Thoughts on How YOU can adopt a more agile philosophy for your career

  • Think about the skills and strengths that you have and how they can be transferred to another role, company, industry.
  • Get clarity about what makes you special, what youre passionate about, and plan on embracing opportunities which would help you shine.
  • Be open to new possibilities, even if they werent planned. Sometimes a negative situation is a positive one in disguise! As one panelist remarked, Welcome the opportunity to get thrown into the deep end!
  • Take the opportunity to get the education you need to succeed, whether its an MBA, a conference or lecture, informational interviewing, in-depth reading, etc.,
  • Partner with current management on your short term and long term goals. Ask what it would take specifically to get to the next level of your career, and be proactive in your management of your career.
  • As you proactively plan your career, ensure that you keep focusing on your strengths, and moving in the direction of your passions and intentions.
  • There is generally no need to remediate a missing skill, unless it would interfere with your ability to achieve your goals.
  • Embrace new opportunities with energy and enthusiasm, and sell to your strengths.
  • Dont be intimidated about your lack of deep technical or industry knowledge, and do sell how quickly you learn, how your current skills are an asset, and how energetic and passionate you are about what youre doing!
  • Network with people of similar interests.
  • With that said, also network with people with different interests!
  • Surround yourself with people who believe in you and will proactively support you. Be willing to reciprocate.